if you like really indie/mellow/experimental kind of music, check this guy out! he's from Sweden.
http://www.myspace.com/arielkillhim
or
http://www.purevolume.com/arielkillhim
if you "realllyy neeeed to go" then just go alone. that's what i'd do, and have done in the past. who cares if you are with or without someone? mingle and make a new friend who loves the band just as much as you. yesss!
ha yes...it IS in fact my band.
i am writing/recording the debut album right now.
13 songs down, 7 more to go!
when its done, i will be selling them to all who wants one!