Dear _______,
Yes, I may like you and have liked you for quite some time now, but I sure as hell am NOT going to smoke or drink with you. I don't care how much I like you, that's not going to happen.
What a man. It takes balls to do what he did and he certainly is a hero for it. Best wishes to him and those who love and care about him and here's to a great recovery. If only there were more men like him in the world, maybe it wouldn't be such a mucked up place.
I hope that rat bastard gets put behind bars and I hope that damned woman comes to her senses and leaves the rat bastard.