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Avadore

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  1. ^ you don't really need to tell your grandparents

    unless they are a big part of your life

    im not telling mine cos it's none of their business and they grew up in a time were it was REALLY not accepted

    so it seems a bit pointless haha

    but its up to you who you want to tell :)

    my mum told my aunt

    and she cried

    all "ELAIIIINEE (my mum) GRANDCHILDREN!!!!!!"

    i was a bit offended! i still have a womb :S

    and a sister

    hahaha

    im sure my cousins know they have m on facebook aha

    but im not going out my way to tell them

    they will figure it out!

     

    I agree, there are only certain people you need to tell.. others will figure it out. If not, who cares! 8-)

  2. i actually agree...idk, theres just soemthing about that word...idk. haha

     

     

    but ughh i'm kinda worried.

     

    my dad's at work. my mom's babysitting.

    she said "how much cash do you have on you? i'll pay you back, but when the kids leave, wanna go pick up some frappachino's from starbucks? we can enjoy them before i take you to the doctors."

     

    at first i didnt think anything of it, but then i realized that my mom will usually just tell me to go at that moment, not to wait for anyone to leave. meaning, she probably wants to talk about me coming out.

     

    idk why i'm worried, i already told them, but i'm just dreading the confrontation. i know i'll be dissapointing her, and i know it'll end up with me, and possibly her, in tears.

     

     

    "Coming out" is tough. I haven't told my mother yet, but I've told some friends and my aunt- who is also gay. I was in tears telling her, but it was the best feeling in the world afterward. I can't even tell you how great I felt for the rest of the day. It just felt like a weight was lifted. You have to remember that it's not about other people.. you have to think of you. It doesn't have to be a big deal. I see it like being straight. It's just what you are, that's it. You were born this way, you didn't choose it. So embrace it. Personally, I love being gay, even though it may create some obstacles in life.. and I mean, you only live once. Anywho.. Haha. End rant. I just hope everything works out well for you.

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