It's ok man, we've all been through it. Well, not really, but we know where you're coming from. Don't sweat it, a life is worth a lot more then just talking to some people. Even though those "people" are awesome to the max lol.
He's just a bit naive, he'll get over it. Everything's a phase, he'll learn soon enough. Just keep enjoying Paramore Ben, but if that's not enough for you, there's a BAJILLION bands out there to listen to also.
Damnit, I want that RIOT! All-over shirt, but I would very much prefer the red one lol. They weren't selling it at warped in Dallas, so I had to wait. I hope they change the color to red soon.
Don't worry man, you'll meet her one day yo. I don't really know about hanging with her though... They're pretty busy nowadays... Anyway, to stall, find yourself a steady relationship and chill with your friends. It helps, i'm pretty sure. :]