Ive seen love die_

I am going to marry this man's face off. OMG I LOVE HIM. Obsessively.

I think they're ok...but they suck live, and that totally takes away from a band.

Oh no, of course it's not. They didn't even wanna waste a space in the contest on them.

I'm gonna go cheat on the other contest AOL is having, actually. So go check up on that one too. Ok? Just giving you a heads up so you don't have to go through all the trouble this time around.

Uh, I don't think I started the fuss. I'm not the one who made a username and came on our boards and ""checked up on us" and then reported us.

Like I said, I voted for All Time Low. I don't think I would have gone through all the trouble of cheating for a band I WASN'T voting for. But thanks, go ahead and quote away.

"Your cheating" Lol I didn't even know cheating was going on. Seriously, get over it.

Um. Wow. This is pretty sad, actually. It's just a stupid voting thing on AOL. I can't believe it's turned into this. Checking up on us and what not. Oh noez, like Brand New needs anymore exposure anyway. Puhleez. I voted for All Time Low anyway. Oh and P.S - the cheating ("cheating" uh whatever, I don't even care) wasn't right either, but this is a pretty extreme measure to take. So thanks for the lulz.

After DanRad did Equis he became very unattractive to me.

REPRESENTING!

YAY I LOVE SEPTEMBER!!! <3

HOLY CRAP! Their layout has changed a bit...and it says "Debut Album YOU'VE DUG YOUR GRAVE, NOW LIE IN IT, September 07" WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

I think it's album artwork if I am not mistaken. Ryan explained it to me once - he said something about a girl getting covered in vines, and as the pictures go on she's covered more and more. It seems to be. :]

OMG Y'ALL CHECK OUT KENOTIA'S LAYOUT ON MYSPACE!! Wheeeeeeeeeee! :]

That video was stupid...the song is much better than what that video portrayed which was...WHAT EXACTLY???

HOLY CRAP THAT BACKDROP IS FREAKING SICK!!!!!!

Jeremy's v necks always go lower than Josh's. :]

They were drawing on themselves at the m&g. Jeremy wrote a J on Josh's arm, I THINK. And I think Jeremy had a J too, though I can't remember for sure. And I donno about Zac.

Freaking awesome! I would love to use it if you don't mind. :]

http://www.purevolume.com/videos/betweenthetrees/thewayshefeels Their new music video for 'The Way She Feels' I am SO in love with it. It's so powerful. Ah this band is so one of my top 5 favorite bands. <3

I wasn't at all faulting her for being honest, I was only being honest myself. When you see words like that about your friends, it's a bit of a shock....and very disgusting. I get defensive of my friends, and like you, I never really talked to her, so that wasn't exactly an invitation for friendship. I'm all for accepting apologies and moving on, as I said in my earlier post. I was just simply coming clean with my own feelings. And now that I have, and I see her response, I can move on comfortably.

I second this...my thoughts exactly.

I'll be straight up with you Glo...what you said about Diego pissed me off the most. It was totally uncalled for. But at least you came clean about it, I just hope you are sincere.

My thoughts exactly. I believe everyone has been really mature about this. :] I'm proud of everyone and I think we've already started on the right road to fixing this.

It suprised me when this information was first presented to me. Suprised, and disgusted me. It definetly played a role in my decision to leave the boards. However, if I see that certain people on here are comitted to changing how some things work around here, I may want to stay. Maybe not like how it used to be, but certainly be a prescence here. I have a lot of friends here and this site has been a part of my life for almost a year. I think changes must be made and Diego was absolutely justified in posting this. It needed to come out, and things need to change. Now that I see it could happen, I am viewing things differently. I believe posting this was the right thing to do. You can leave something behind and unburied, but someone will stumble across it eventually, and it could make things worse. If things had gone on the way they had been going, more people could have been hurt. I've seen Alyssa, Diego, Ash and Brent doing the most on this site, and I continue to have respect for all of them and my friendships with Alyssa and Diego will continue even after their time here. But those staffers have been very dedicated to this site and I believe that they DO deserve respect. And we do too - the people on this forum, we're part of this family as well. What was said was not respectful to us AT ALL. Even if we weren't one of the people talked about, it was still a breach of respect and trust. If they can talk about a few of us that way, they wouldn't think twice before opening their mouths about the rest of us. But now that it has come out, I really hope for the best. I apologized in earlier threads for some harsh words said, and one of the things I was sorry for was thinking these boards could be brought down so easily. I believe everyone on here is a family, and as such we need to learn to work through things together - thick and thin, right? I believe Brent was sincere, and I don't harbor hatred or anything of the like for him, since I do believe he has been genuine and has come clean with us. While I don't know how the others whose words have been put on display here will act, I respect Brent for stepping forward and taking responsibility. I believe that is one of the hardest things in life to do, and it shows maturity on his part, even if his words that Diego showed us haven't. While the harsh words have not gone unnoticed, they can certainly be buried in the past if one believes in forgiveness strongly enough. I used to think revenge and hate was the answer, but I suppose I've grown from that. Feelings like that won't solve anything. We all love this band and these boards and for the most part, eachother. It's about time we started showing it, in the right way. I may be echoing a bunch of Jarrod's words (he said it perfectly), but forgiveness is key to family. We all do things we regret, but it's how we handle the situation afterwards that can change everything. Hopefully the next time someone wants to speak ill of the people on here, they think twice. Don't ever think you need to stand down and take it, and Diego is showing us that positive can come from negative. Like I said earlier, we deserve as much respect as anyone. But one of the people who said things has stepped forward and apologized. We've already made progress. Let's keep going forward.