that was probably the hardest thing i have ever had to do.
her response was :
"I am going to be honest with you, i don't know what to say, and i'm sorry this answer has taken so long, i don't want to say yes because i'm not sure how i feel and i think that would be unfair on you, can we just be friends for now? i'm really sorry i know how hard it was for you to ask me that"