Lilbit Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 ok so this guy likes me and i dont really like him as a boyfriend plus i kind of like someone else and i dont know how to tell this guy that i like someone else without hurting his feelings. I know this thread may be pointless but please help! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goodnote Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 You could be blunt, but if you don't want to hurt his feelings, try telling him that you really aren't interested, or you could just ignore him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilbit Posted December 4, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 yea...i kinda did try to ignore him but he called my house and i hung up on him and my sis was in the room so she told my mom who made me feel bad about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myheartis_yours Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 if you care for him, you should just straight up tell him that you aren't interested. i really dont think you should make up any excuses like "i'm not ready for a relationship" because my friend did that and then the guy still thought he had a chance and asked her out numerous times after that. obviously, you shouldn't be rude to him, just simply say you aren't interested. i think the hardest thing will be being friends with him after telling him you aren't interested. unless of course you dont want to be friends with him. your choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest haunted_dreams55 Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 I was in the same situation once. I told the guy that I just wanted to be friends but he kept telling me he wanted to be more then just friends. So I had to keep telling him that. He finally just stoped asking me and we were good friends after that. Yeah it was a little awkward at first but we got past it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatsername104 Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 yea, like Rebekah and everyone else said, just straight up tell you that you don't see him that way. he may be crushed, but it's better than leading him on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
watchthesky Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 ^ agreed. leading him on is worse than anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalas Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 Uhuh...i'm a guy so i'm allowed to say something right haha I guess it depends on the person, but it's best to be honest with someone, rather than just ignore them Otherwise the problem will never go away, i don't know if he will appreciate honesty Buuut it's the only way :] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilbit Posted December 4, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 hey thanks you guys! i was talking to my mom and she said the same thing and i guess i would rather be honest than just hurt him more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
watchthesky Posted December 5, 2006 Report Share Posted December 5, 2006 good choice. and good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hayleh Posted December 6, 2006 Report Share Posted December 6, 2006 if you care for him, you should just straight up tell him that you aren't interested.i really dont think you should make up any excuses like "i'm not ready for a relationship" because my friend did that and then the guy still thought he had a chance and asked her out numerous times after that. obviously, you shouldn't be rude to him, just simply say you aren't interested. i think the hardest thing will be being friends with him after telling him you aren't interested. unless of course you dont want to be friends with him. your choice. it's not hard to stay friends mannnn. you should just tell him you don't like him in the way he likes you, and you'd rather be good friends with him because you don't want to lose him or something =/ if you would that is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
</3_Vindicated_ Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 Just explain to him you only like him as a friend and it would be harsh to lie to him and tell him you do like him when you don't. It might hurt him to start with but it's better off in the long run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jveliz Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 ok so this guy likes me and i dont really like him as a boyfriend plus i kind of like someone else and i dont know how to tell this guy that i like someone else without hurting his feelings. I know this thread may be pointless but please help! hey it is fine tell him it is better if he found out by you and noone els Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 ok so this guy likes me and i dont really like him as a boyfriend plus i kind of like someone else and i dont know how to tell this guy that i like someone else without hurting his feelings. I know this thread may be pointless but please help! How did this turn out? or has it been said, and i've just read straigh past it, lolz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 29, 2007 Report Share Posted September 29, 2007 good luck with whatever you end up doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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