angelsleadyouin Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 i have an account but i was kinda shy to post this so i made a new account this sounds so gay but whatever, im talkin to this guy and i havent talk to him for almost a year now. he told me he loved me and he still does. but i don't know what to do. he tries to impress me and it so obvious! i wish i could just tell him he doesn't need to do that. he asked me if i still had my bf and if he was the same one. what does he think i am? gosh. and he said "i dun have gf anymore but im still mad happy" when did he get a girlfriend and why do i need to know that? wtf? gosh. what am i suppose to tell him? to leave me alone and stop tryin to get me? i really like him but only as a friend. he calls me "chick" and "love". IM NOT YOUR GF GUY WHAT ARE YOU DOING. it gets me so mad! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Echelonforever Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 Just be honest with him and let him know you only want to be friends. Being honest is the best thing you can do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 dont ask me, i sound like the guy on the other end Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Echelonforever Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 Guys (most) always try to do things to impress us if they think that it might make us be into them. It's obvious that he likes you, so maybe if you dont want to hurt his feelings or you're not a really bold person just drop him a hint and be like, "yea i hate it when guys try to impress me." I dont know something like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 Just be honest with him and let him know you only want to be friends. Being honest is the best thing you can do. thats exactly what i woudl have said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Echelonforever Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 thats exactly what i woudl have said. Great minds think alike. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelsleadyouin Posted June 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 whoa... as soon as i posted this, he stopped talking to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 is it someone off here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelsleadyouin Posted June 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 is it someone off here? no.. but maybe he has an account here and i don't know it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 fair enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 ok well ill try help you from the otherside of things here cause ive been recently hurt in that kinda situ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 whoa... as soon as i posted this, he stopped talking to me. Problem solved then! I'm sorry, my humour probably isn't appreciated just now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 dont like palm him away, just put up with those lil things like him calling you chick, i mean thats not so bad anyway, just be his friend, if he loves you, he would rather be friends with you than nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hiroki Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 Just tell him that your not gay but your willing to try in this case.....either that or just tell him your not interested. Don't lead him on because that just gives him false hope and you a bad name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelsleadyouin Posted June 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 ok well ill try help you from the otherside of things here cause ive been recently hurt in that kinda situ thanks dude. and i'm sorry that your hurt. this guy... i know he's hurt. he's always talkin about how he can never get the girl he loves. but he sounds like a bastard sometimes. he'd be like "sorry cute girl on the other line" WTF GRRRRRR. or "i'm going to the park with a hot chick" he just said he had to go. and that he'll talk to me later. but he's still online. he's probably waiting for me to say something else. he always does that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 if he loves you, he would rather be friends with you than nothing. Indeed. I wouldn't shun him out your life completely, I'd let him know that you don't want to be in a relationship with him. Try and not use the phrase "i still want to be friends" or some sort of variant though, cause it's just the worst thing for a guy to hear. That, or "We need to talk". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 fuck man sounds JUST like me, where you from? xD its like tell him like what are you doing with hot chicks when your in love with someone else? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hiroki Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 You know when you hear "i still want to be friends" didn't that not just piss you off??? I know it used to with me and just made me fall out with the person I was friends with in the first place before the crush. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelsleadyouin Posted June 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 fuck man sounds JUST like me, where you from? xD its like tell him like what are you doing with hot chicks when your in love with someone else? he tells me he loves me.. he even kissed me once... and there he goes fucking around with other girls! (sorry for the language.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 exactly lee. it really meens like " i dont want to be friends really, im just saying it so i can feel a bit better about things, and i know we probably wont be friends anyway" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 he tells me he loves me.. he even kissed me once... and there he goes fucking around with other girls! (sorry for the language.) well it sounds like your jealous of these other girls? maybe you should just talk to him bout things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelsleadyouin Posted June 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 well it sounds like your jealous of these other girls? maybe you should just talk to him bout things. no i'm not. i mean can't he make up his mind? and i'm extremely happy with who i am right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hiroki Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 exactly lee. it really meens like " i dont want to be friends really, im just saying it so i can feel a bit better about things, and i know we probably wont be friends anyway" Yup so girl who posted this take note of what not to say and also you know you like the guy or you wouldn't get jealous so just talk to the guy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 You know when you hear "i still want to be friends" didn't that not just piss you off??? I know it used to with me and just made me fall out with the person I was friends with in the first place before the crush. Fuck yes. It pisses me off more so when they break up with you for a, somewhat, valid or concrete reason. In that, they can't really go out with anyone else aswell if they meant the reason. Then they go get a new boyfriend which just goes against the reason they gave for breaking up with you in the first place! Hypocritical cow. Sorry, venting anger ftw! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 no i'm not. i mean can't he make up his mind? and i'm extremely happy with who i am right now. well if your happy how you are and hes not really got a shot, maybe you should let him be with these other girls, its better than him sitting around waiting on the false hope that he might get you. i know i made the mistake of doing that and missed a couple of chances i aint ever going to get again, and things like that really kill me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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