RenegadeRoss Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 i know im in love when ive started crying, im so weak its terrible not one bit of me is strong willed at all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 aww ross =[ you are strong, just not as strong in this situation as you are in others. =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 we were just having a deep conversation about how we'd buried our feelings cause its for the best because we're best friends, and i was just saying how i havnt been able to, and i was doing okay till she went "i love you ross x", and i just filled up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 awww no! dont do thattttt! does she feel the same way then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 yeah she does, but because we're best friends its the most hardest/must frustrating thing ever, she doesnt want to lose me, and i dont want to lose her, and its such a big risk, but at the same time,this is so hard to deal with. i've never felt my heart beat the way it does when she affects it by what she says, or does, or when i see her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 tell her that then. tell her you want to be more than friends, and you'll do everything in your power to make it work =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted November 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 ross - lahni is right! just cause you guys are best friends, dosent mean you cant be anything more. its that chick Aine, right? you've told me about her before - and it sounds like you really are BEST friends. if *touch wood* a relationship didnt work out, it sounds like you are close enough to be able to go back to being best friends! dont back down dude! go get her! TEAM ROSS! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 see im pretty good at this stuff ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 yeah its her Aoife! Awch thanks you 2, i'm giving it so much thought, its just, i fear i'll live the rest of my life like this, and i dont want that, so i want to prove i can make it work, you 2 are right thankyou guys you 2 are awesome you know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted November 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 yeah its her Aoife! Awch thanks you 2, i'm giving it so much thought, its just, i fear i'll live the rest of my life like this, and i dont want that, so i want to prove i can make it work, you 2 are right thankyou guys you 2 are awesome you know <3 yeah we are pretty awesome! haha jk jk nah but seriously - it really is a risk worth taking if she feels the same, just take time to discuss it with her make sure you let her know what you really want good luck ross 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 HELLZ YEAH IM AWESOME! ;D but yeah, it really is a risk worth taking. go for it! TEAM WIN!!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 thank you loves, that means alot, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted November 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 thank you loves, that means alot, anytime ross if ya ever wanna talk about it - you know where to find me =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 same with me ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 i appreciate that alot Your both owed a drink in nottingham! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 SCOREEEEE!!!!!! ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted November 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 ....the only reason i was being nice paid off! haha jk jk ...but i will hold you to it mate haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted November 2, 2008 Report Share Posted November 2, 2008 im not even old enough to drink! just buy me a bottle of vodka and i'll be done ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartshapedtaty Posted November 3, 2008 Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 I came into this huge convo very very late. What have i missed? I did read some of it..or the first two pages then this page lol. I'm bi. The area i live in is pretty accepting, though i still do run into homophobes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted November 3, 2008 Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 at least your accepted i like hearing about that kinda stuff. but sadly, you have to run into those kind of people, b/c society just sucks like that. =\ are you out to people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartshapedtaty Posted November 3, 2008 Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 Yeah:). I remember when i came out to my mom..her reaction was 'so?' I really appreciate that i have her, and to my friends that are bi/gay/lesbian who are less-fortune with the parents.. i usually offer my mom to them(my mom is their mom) lol..it usually brightens their moods. Yeah society does sadly have to work like that. I kinda came out to the people around me when i wasn't ready to back when i was in 7th grade. I was dating this girl, and only one friend knew about that. Apparently the girl i was dating told people.. and just in one day my whole grade seemed to have known. It was...ah lol but now its kindof normal around here, which is also 'ah' in a way. Sorry im talking too much lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted November 3, 2008 Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 noooo your not talking too much, not at all :] glad your moms good with it. and everyone else for that matter =D i came out to my parents 2ce. the first time we had a few-hour long convo about it, for them to ignore it the next day. about a year and a half later, a few months ago, i told them again. their reaction: dad: *stares* *looks back at tv* mom: *doesnt even look up* me: so...no comment? dad: no. then a few weeks after that we talked again. he said "i cant acept this. i cant support this. it goes against everything i believe, everything thats right. your my daughter, i will always love you. but i cant support it. and your mother feels the same way." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CopperKid Posted November 3, 2008 Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 I'm gay. My parents don't know but my friends, my sister and some other people know. Three people think it is phase and it annoys me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted November 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 hey Tatyana and Jessica =] thats pretty cool! Tatyanna - it would take you years to read this thread basically we all just discuss or gay love lives haha speaking of which, i forgot to post about the sudden change in mine recently so you guys remember that girl i liked, but was like "she really likes some1 else, we're just friends" drunk texting the othet night - turns out she does like me so yeah - things are pretty amazing atm =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted November 3, 2008 Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 yay aoife thats awesome =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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