Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 apparently it depends who you are, ive had to do that 4 times, and managed it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 thats true some people can let it go and some people will still be hung up on it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 well people should be able to let go, if you get hung up on death for too long you wont be able to live your life, thats not my fault that they are not emotionally mature enough to let go of someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 yea yea i know but still even if they shouldnt be as hung up on it as they are you still need to be considerate of their feelings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 as you know, there are few people in the world who's feelings i give a shit about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 that is very true actually. but death is a very touchy subject and i jsut can not stand when ppl are so inconsiderate about it beacause i have lost so many people that were close to me in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 and you think i havent lost people who are close to me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 i didnt say that im saying i know how it feels to lose someone and get no sypathy for it. my uncle was in the senate i was HARRASED because of it when he died in a car crash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 one of my best friends at school was bullied insanely and ended up hanging himself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 alright then so idk why you are so inconsiderate about this. well youre alex so...... i guess it makes sense Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 maybe because i have had a lot of emotional distress in my life, and not much help with it, which has given me one or two emotional deficiencies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 okay well that makes sense but idk you just need to respect people emotions more than you do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 thats a hard thing for me to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 i know it is. but if you cant be nice or have anything nice to say about issues like this can you just not say it at all cuz you can really hurt someone one day... i know you dont exactly care all that much but can you just not say anything at all if you know it'll end up hurting someone please Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 just this subject pisses me off the way people look for sympathy about it. its wank, do they go and have a whole day remembering all the people who have been illegally murdered in the war in iraq? like fuck do they Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 i know i know. fyi i didnt loose anyone to this, if my aunt went to work that day i wouldve lost her but i didnt. but yea i see what you are saying about this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 its also typical of american society as well, do we have a remembrance thing every year about the bombs on the underground? no. is there a yearly remembrance for the milan train bombs? no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meganm15 Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 Day after my birthday D: K well that day was gonna be my first day of 5th grade in my new school. I had heard what happened on like.. every radio channel while I was in the car. My mom decided I should just go to school the next day. So we went back home and it was on every news channel too, I didnt really know what was going on cuz I was like.. 9 or something. But then I saw the video of the plane crash. Last year my US History teacher showed us this video. There was this guy who was taking a documentary of a NY fireman. Surprisingly, it was on 9/11. So he followed the firemen with his camera into the building to rescue more people.. and I felt so bad watching it. You can hear people dropping and screaming, see people falling out the windows. Thru out the film, everytime you heard a loud noise, that was a body falling. A floor collapsed on the camera guy and some firefighters, but they survived. Its a pretty sad video.. i saw that video! its so sad....hearing the bodies drop is the creepiest thing ever...knowing that seconds ago they were standing at the edge of a window deciding to end their life...its terrible..and to think they were someones family... =/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 okay well that is the way we live here just because its different than there doesnt make it wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 it does tho, the point that the rest of the world is also just expected to go along with it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 no it doesnt i know people like this and i hate people like this. just because someone doesnt do things they way you do DOES NOT mean its wrong it just means they have a different way about going about things 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 i dont care that YOU in america, remember it annually, its the fact that the rest of the world is expected to, when quite frankly most of the world couldnt careless anymore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 okay I never said anyone else other than americans had to remember it annually and i dont think EVERYONE here thinks that. so just stop thinking EVERYONE is the same because its not true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 do you live in a country other than america? no. you dont know what the affect of america has on other countries Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 13, 2008 Report Share Posted September 13, 2008 no i dont and im not saying i do know that i do uinderstand what you are saying but not everyone expects people to remember this annually stop blaming this on every fuckin american because thats not the case Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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