sandra Posted September 7, 2010 Report Share Posted September 7, 2010 love sucks. no seriously it really really sucks. I need advice haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iOta Posted September 7, 2010 Report Share Posted September 7, 2010 love sucks. no seriously it really really sucks. I need advice haha Love is never easy. PM me if you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted September 7, 2010 Report Share Posted September 7, 2010 It's just that ive liked someone for a while now,and until saturday ive never known what she thinks of me,but my friend got some info out of her. And she said that she does like me,and thinks i'm cute and all that. But we're in the same group of friends so she doesn't really want to ruin anything because she loves haning with us all. And also she met this other girl in germany over the summer but she said it was just a fling but after her she kind of wants a break from dating.. oh and she also said she's never really gotten any hints from me about liking her. and all of this is fine, it wasnt bad info but it wasnt great either, i can't exactly push her to go on a date with me when she wants to take a break from it all, i'm just afraid she'll meet someone else and i'll miss my chance. the reason she hasnt gotten any hints from me is that when i like someone i get really shy,so whenever ive been with her ive hardly talked at all lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XMusicDudetteX Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 So last Thursday, my friend asked me out. He had been wanting to two weeks prior to asking me. Everything was dandy, but we both felt like we were better off being friends. . . When he started talking to his ex-girlfriend again and realized he still likes her. We went out on a "date" Monday night and I felt that we were better off being friends anyway, so that's okay. But my pride and self-esteem hurt, haha. I feel like crap and I feel like whenever something starts to go well for me, it comes back and smacks me in the face. This is why I don't want to like ANYBODY or date ANYBODY. This crap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 9, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 awwww yeah i know how you feel. im sorry so i keep seeing this one guy EVERYWHERE on campus. and idk exactly how to put it but he interests me... i feel like i need to learn more about him, if you know what i mean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 so i keep seeing this one guy EVERYWHERE on campus. and idk exactly how to put it but he interests me... i feel like i need to learn more about him, if you know what i mean Sounds like a potential restraining order... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
watchthesky Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 Sounds like a potential restraining order... hahahahhaa it's you innit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted September 9, 2010 Author Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 fuck you ross lol. not like that. hahahaha he lives in the building right next to mine and i guess we just have classes at the same time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hubabalou Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 Accidently run into him Catie. hahahaha So, the guy that has been playing me now has a girlfriend and I kinda want to punch him in the face for being such a tease. I'm glad it happened now though, because Lord knows how long it would have kept going. We're still gonna be friends, but yeah, the attraction to him has disappeared. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MSkeleton Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 Print a photo of him, paste it on you pillow and punch him in the face? So you still punched him? if this makes sense But I think thats very stupid of guys. It's like they always date/talk/flirt with two girls, like they always have change. Oh, number one don't wants me, well I can go to number two. Like we are something you can get from the supermarket? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hubabalou Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 Hahaha. I should. That would be hilarious. I really do want to rage on him though. That would probably be a good way to do so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MSkeleton Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 Yeah it will loose of the steam, and good a exercise if you need to blow of steam a few times in a week. hahaha I once was mad a guy, that I printed his picture and darted on him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hubabalou Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 If I had darts I would totally do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MSkeleton Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 haha (: yeah my brother like darts, and is like a kind of pro here. But the darts aren't here anymore He took it with them when he went out of the house =[ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hubabalou Posted September 11, 2010 Report Share Posted September 11, 2010 Well, apparently the girl I thought was his girlfriend is actually his brother's girlfriend. I feel kinda dumb, but at the same time I think that the whole situation was just a way of telling me that I'm being an absolute idiot and that I need to step back and reevaluate everything thats been happening in my life, especially with him. He's not good for me and I'm coming to realize this pretty solidly. I've been a complete idiot for the past 9 months because of him. I shouldn't have to feel dumb for someone to like me. I'm glad I figured that out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waketheearth Posted September 11, 2010 Report Share Posted September 11, 2010 THAT STUPID BROTHER OF HIS UGH </3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XMusicDudetteX Posted September 11, 2010 Report Share Posted September 11, 2010 This week was not my week for the whole "love life" place of my life. 1). I saw my creepy ex-boyfriend on Tuesday where I go to take guitar lessons. And it's possible he will be there every week now, right along with me. He always asks for us to get back together and says how beautiful I am, how smart and funny I am, and blah blah blah. 2). On Wednesday, the guy I'd been dating realized he still loves his ex-girlfriend and they got back together the next day (but I was wanting to be friends anyhow). 3). This girl keeps on flirting with me in a very creepy fashion and started getting more creepy on Thursday. I'm not homophobic by any stretch of the imagination, mind you. I don't like it when ANYBODY refuses to listen to me when I say, "No," or "Stop," and so on. She doesn't care and she continues to make me uncomfortable. 4). This creepy stalker dude I had last school year came to the school yesterday (Friday), wanting to see me. I've never sprinted around campus so much in my life. What was my last resort when he spotted me? My friend told me to sit on his lap. I was completely taken aback by this demand and I opposed it but he insisted and swore it'd work, that the stalker guy wouldn't come near me if he saw me sitting on his lap (considering stalker boy is only about, 5'3", 5'4" and my friend is roughly 6'2"). So I did it and STILL, he attempted to come over to me later on. My friend covered me as I walked to the front of the school and booked it. 4). I still might like this one, wonderful boy with whom I've absolutely no chance, I'm sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Girls, best way to get over someone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MSkeleton Posted October 5, 2010 Report Share Posted October 5, 2010 I think eating icecream, hanging out with friends? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kasiek Posted October 5, 2010 Report Share Posted October 5, 2010 Girls, best way to get over someone? get to know him/her and figure out that he/she is not worth it. you can't do this by yourself it will come with some time. i'm just being realistic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted October 5, 2010 Report Share Posted October 5, 2010 This week was not my week for the whole "love life" place of my life. 1). I saw my creepy ex-boyfriend on Tuesday where I go to take guitar lessons. And it's possible he will be there every week now, right along with me. He always asks for us to get back together and says how beautiful I am, how smart and funny I am, and blah blah blah. 2). On Wednesday, the guy I'd been dating realized he still loves his ex-girlfriend and they got back together the next day (but I was wanting to be friends anyhow). 3). This girl keeps on flirting with me in a very creepy fashion and started getting more creepy on Thursday. I'm not homophobic by any stretch of the imagination, mind you. I don't like it when ANYBODY refuses to listen to me when I say, "No," or "Stop," and so on. She doesn't care and she continues to make me uncomfortable. 4). This creepy stalker dude I had last school year came to the school yesterday (Friday), wanting to see me. I've never sprinted around campus so much in my life. What was my last resort when he spotted me? My friend told me to sit on his lap. I was completely taken aback by this demand and I opposed it but he insisted and swore it'd work, that the stalker guy wouldn't come near me if he saw me sitting on his lap (considering stalker boy is only about, 5'3", 5'4" and my friend is roughly 6'2"). So I did it and STILL, he attempted to come over to me later on. My friend covered me as I walked to the front of the school and booked it. 4). I still might like this one, wonderful boy with whom I've absolutely no chance, I'm sure. It's also not your week for numbering... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted October 5, 2010 Report Share Posted October 5, 2010 get to know him/her and figure out that he/she is not worth it. you can't do this by yourself it will come with some time. i'm just being realistic yeah i know,i just wish it would happen now. and the thing is, the more i get to know her the more i like her.. so i'm kind of screwed anyways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted October 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 5, 2010 Girls, best way to get over someone? find someone else. it's what i always do. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted October 5, 2010 Report Share Posted October 5, 2010 haha well i actually had someone else but they're going through some personal problems so it kind of stopped the flirting we had going on ;P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guro Posted October 6, 2010 Report Share Posted October 6, 2010 I think one of my best friends is cutting herself. It makes me really worried, and angry. I'm not completely sure though, but today at school, she had the arm on her hoodie up. And all of a sudden I saw a lot of bloody strokes around the elbow. I don't think she knew she had it that far up, cause when I said(without thinking): 'wow, what happened to you?', she ignored it, but took the arm of the hoodie down right away. I just really hope she doesn't do it. One of my other friends did it a few years ago, it got so bad she had to stay at the psychological department of the hospital for a while. I have no idea what to do. Help anyone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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