sandra Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 awww that sucks! btw, and this is gonna piss off alex by mentioning it again, oh well, i came out to my parents last night. yeah haha but i told him to tell her sorry for me =p Oh thats great i guess maybe it would have been cool if they said anything at all about it, but at least they didnt react badly and like kicked you out or something. well done katie ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Im so proud of Katie Good for you girl! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avadore Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 I'm gay.. I don't like the term "lesbian" for some reason, haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 ^i dont either lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 i like typing lesbian in google Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avadore Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 ^i dont either lol Yeah, it just sounds.. ugh. Lol. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 i actually agree...idk, theres just soemthing about that word...idk. haha but ughh i'm kinda worried. my dad's at work. my mom's babysitting. she said "how much cash do you have on you? i'll pay you back, but when the kids leave, wanna go pick up some frappachino's from starbucks? we can enjoy them before i take you to the doctors." at first i didnt think anything of it, but then i realized that my mom will usually just tell me to go at that moment, not to wait for anyone to leave. meaning, she probably wants to talk about me coming out. idk why i'm worried, i already told them, but i'm just dreading the confrontation. i know i'll be dissapointing her, and i know it'll end up with me, and possibly her, in tears. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 diddums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 i like typing lesbian in google same. :hyper: I'm gay.. I don't like the term "lesbian" for some reason, haha. same, idk why, it just makes me feel dirty. =[ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avadore Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 i actually agree...idk, theres just soemthing about that word...idk. haha but ughh i'm kinda worried. my dad's at work. my mom's babysitting. she said "how much cash do you have on you? i'll pay you back, but when the kids leave, wanna go pick up some frappachino's from starbucks? we can enjoy them before i take you to the doctors." at first i didnt think anything of it, but then i realized that my mom will usually just tell me to go at that moment, not to wait for anyone to leave. meaning, she probably wants to talk about me coming out. idk why i'm worried, i already told them, but i'm just dreading the confrontation. i know i'll be dissapointing her, and i know it'll end up with me, and possibly her, in tears. "Coming out" is tough. I haven't told my mother yet, but I've told some friends and my aunt- who is also gay. I was in tears telling her, but it was the best feeling in the world afterward. I can't even tell you how great I felt for the rest of the day. It just felt like a weight was lifted. You have to remember that it's not about other people.. you have to think of you. It doesn't have to be a big deal. I see it like being straight. It's just what you are, that's it. You were born this way, you didn't choose it. So embrace it. Personally, I love being gay, even though it may create some obstacles in life.. and I mean, you only live once. Anywho.. Haha. End rant. I just hope everything works out well for you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 aww at least you told some people! turns out my mom didnt bring it up. i was studying and she was on the phone and we got sidetracked from the starbucks. hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarlequinGerhl Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 "Coming out" is tough. I haven't told my mother yet, but I've told some friends and my aunt- who is also gay. I was in tears telling her, but it was the best feeling in the world afterward. I can't even tell you how great I felt for the rest of the day. It just felt like a weight was lifted. You have to remember that it's not about other people.. you have to think of you. It doesn't have to be a big deal. I see it like being straight. It's just what you are, that's it. You were born this way, you didn't choose it. So embrace it. Personally, I love being gay, even though it may create some obstacles in life.. and I mean, you only live once. Anywho.. Haha. End rant. I just hope everything works out well for you. i couldnt have put it any better myself! i love being gay too i kinda like being part of a minority and when you go to pride parades and stuff you feel part of this huge, global community and it's just really uniting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 i've always wanted to go to one of those festivals. how are they? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarlequinGerhl Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 pride is SO much fun i went to my first one this year and it was like the whole of london went gay for the day rainbow flags everywhere thousands of people parties really great you do feel very proud to be who you are when you are there i found Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avadore Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 We have an AMAZING Pride Week here in Toronto. Saw my favourite artist perform there in June. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 kay. so. i was talking to jack like you all know. and he told my aunt for me. who in turn told my uncle for me. so now everyone in that family knows. [[my cousiins are way to young to understand]] should i tell my other 2 aunts and uncles? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avadore Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 If you feel that you are ready, yes. Might be a good idea to tell them on your own, though.. if you're up to it. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 thanks! i'm gonna need all the luck i can get. hahah. actually, i did tell one other aunt before, and she may have told my uncle, but he hasnt ever led on that he knows, and she doesnt mention it really. still gotta work on my 2 gmoms though. =\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarlequinGerhl Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^ you don't really need to tell your grandparents unless they are a big part of your life im not telling mine cos it's none of their business and they grew up in a time were it was REALLY not accepted so it seems a bit pointless haha but its up to you who you want to tell my mum told my aunt and she cried all "ELAIIIINEE (my mum) GRANDCHILDREN!!!!!!" i was a bit offended! i still have a womb :S and a sister hahaha im sure my cousins know they have m on facebook aha but im not going out my way to tell them they will figure it out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 I really wanna tell my mom, because i feel so bad when shes always asking me if i met any cute boys.. i just wanna say, no havent met any cute boys OR girls lol But mom will probably be fine with it ,i might actually do it when i go home next week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avadore Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^ you don't really need to tell your grandparentsunless they are a big part of your life im not telling mine cos it's none of their business and they grew up in a time were it was REALLY not accepted so it seems a bit pointless haha but its up to you who you want to tell my mum told my aunt and she cried all "ELAIIIINEE (my mum) GRANDCHILDREN!!!!!!" i was a bit offended! i still have a womb :S and a sister hahaha im sure my cousins know they have m on facebook aha but im not going out my way to tell them they will figure it out! I agree, there are only certain people you need to tell.. others will figure it out. If not, who cares! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^ you don't really need to tell your grandparentsunless they are a big part of your life im not telling mine cos it's none of their business and they grew up in a time were it was REALLY not accepted so it seems a bit pointless haha but its up to you who you want to tell my mum told my aunt and she cried all "ELAIIIINEE (my mum) GRANDCHILDREN!!!!!!" i was a bit offended! i still have a womb :S and a sister hahaha im sure my cousins know they have m on facebook aha but im not going out my way to tell them they will figure it out! well my one gmom is a huge part of my life. the other one...well i dont give a rats ass about her tbh, but i'd still like her to know. it bothers me when people say that, "your les, so you cant have kids!" lies!! you can still have kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 i really hope my aunt and her gf has a kid soon, i would loove that. yay i just added my "dreamgirl" on facebook haha god shes so cute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 aww yay!! my aunt's brother and his..husband? or not? idk, they've been married twice, 3 civil unions, and a domestic partnership, but the states decided not to accept it anymore. ANYWAY. getting off topic. there thinking of having a kid. there trying to find a mother to carry the baby for them. ...and i think i might like emily again.. she works at chili's, and i went there for dinner, and OMFG!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 anybody miss me at all? sorry i haven't been active in months.... my summer was crowded, my school weeks have been hectic, and my weekends have been uneventful. i miss everyone... so give me the lowdown... what's been goin' down up in herrrrr? lots of like, -mlw.tea.THE MARMAR!.[mariah.] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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