the1 Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 Well I'm in a bit of a situation. I feel replaced. Basically (oh god)..there's this girl.She means alot to me but that doesn't mean I want her in that way, although I used to which may mean the feelings slightly stronger.Not too long ago things were going awesome, but as soon as we had the school holidays and cameback, things were different. It seems like she's got into friends with more "popular guys", and I'm kinda off the radar. It sometimes felt like a one sided friendship anyway, she would neve text me askin how i was, but i would to her etc, but then again she did sometimes. Like in certain periods we would get on better. I need to now what to say. I dont wanna seem like a whiny bitch to her, as I've jokingly said it a few times, but not too serious. But I'm pretty upset. Advice? I was just gonna aske her why things have been so awkrard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Itdude Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 hmm, thats a toughie. Yea, I would just with asking. And how long has it been, maybe it's just a thing she's going through, or something like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jorgi Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 Man, i hate it when stuff like that happens... I know how much it sucks. Basically, i think the best way to get around it is to just talk to her straight. I know, easier said than done, but if she's as good a friend as you say she won't think you're "a whiny bitch" or anything, she should listen to your point of view. Just tell her what its like on your side of the field, she probably won't even have noticed what's going on and things should get a-okay ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 ^ agreed. :] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 *agrees with jorgi* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted February 1, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 lol. If only things worked out as easily as they do in my head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clowdiaa Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 just be honest. does she know that you liked her earlier? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
777 Posted February 2, 2008 Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 Im going through basically the same thing dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted February 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Fuck her. I'm through with wasting my time:twisted: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
777 Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 yeya! thats what I say. This encouragement probably wasnt the best, but thats what I'd do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
triquetra Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Just forget her. Or say something like, "I'm sick of this friendship being all one sided, you never make any effort with me, buck up your ideas of fuck off!". Then run away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
777 Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Keyword "run away" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
triquetra Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 ^ maybe add a sob as you do so. or knock something over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clowdiaa Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Fuck her. I'm through with wasting my time:twisted: did you talk to her at all? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted February 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Just forget her. Or say something like, "I'm sick of this friendship being all one sided, you never make any effort with me, buck up your ideas of fuck off!". Then run away. That would be my mind spoken lol. Yes I kinda spoke to her. She said she felt it was also kinda awkrawd, but then it was late at night so she didnt reply again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 im in the exact same position, and tonight about 30mins ago i actually blocked and deleted her on msn, and myspace and deleted her phone number, she can get fucked tbh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
777 Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 There we go, Thats what I do also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clowdiaa Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 That would be my mind spoken lol. Yes I kinda spoke to her. She said she felt it was also kinda awkrawd, but then it was late at night so she didnt reply again. yea, i'd say move on, if she really wanted anything (friendship, romance) she wouldve talked to you by now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Yep also been there. Its funny how people quickly forget how much you've done for them and how you were there for them when no-one else was. Sometimes makes you wonder why you actually bother.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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