closesttoheaven Posted July 25, 2008 Report Share Posted July 25, 2008 well i'm turning 17 soon and i've been with this guy for about 3 years. now i know the world thinks it's impossible to fall in love at such a young age and that all teen couples are just jokes and a bunch of people who wanna have sex. but we're not like that at all.. i mean i love him dearly and so does he. we taught it was stupid to start dating at a real small age cause we taught people were just gonna think of us as, well you know. but it just happend cause we couldn't stand not being together. i feel and i know that he's the love of my live and this is TRUE love. i mean i'm still a virgin and i don't plan on having sex right now. i want to wait till we are older and we know wtf we are doing, you know what i mean? and he feels the same way. he's not like any guy i have ever met or heard of. he's not like those bastards who only want sex. he's really mature and he really understands a lot about what a real relationship is all about. but i just hate it when people think there is no such thing as true love at our age and just have shit to say. and i don't know what to do anymore to make people understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheJake Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 yeah i believe you. there can definitly be true love at an early age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Echelonforever Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 it definetly is possible. I'm 17 and fell in love for the 1st time last year, so it definetly is possible. Dont let anyone tell you what you feel isnt real! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 i fell in love prper,y this year with saduie. im just 215 but was 14 so yeagh,,, stil; hurts me =[ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJ Riot Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 My first and only proper relationship to date started when i was 11 and ended December 2007 when i was 20. You in your heart know what true love is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 I think it's pathetic people saying their in love with some one and after a month or even a week already end up their relation. My cousin's like that, he's twelve and he had something like 50 girls so far ... haha. I'm happy that there's at least some people like you who take it seriously, and are really enjoying being with the one they love. Love at a young age is possible, and I'm waiting for it. :] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notoriousfat67 Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 I wish I could comment on this from an experienced position but i cannot. All im saying is if people doubt you're in love then i say fuck em because love doesn't wait for people to turn a certain age it just happens and when it does you have to hold onto it for as long as you can because true love is so rare these days and its too important to let it slip your fingers because people think you're too young to feel that way.. that kinda seems like it came outta the movies doesnt it? haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roxchick93 Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 u can definatly tell wen ur in love with some one. people shouldnt say other wise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
holleh Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 I fall in love with every guy that shows me the slightest bit of attention... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninski Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 well to quote one tree hill. "what age do you have to be to say that your love is real" love isn't about age. I mean I was only 14 when i fell really hard for this person but things didn't work out and now we're friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travel_hymn Posted July 26, 2008 Report Share Posted July 26, 2008 i agree with you closesttoheaven. btw...my love story is complicated. rofl...do i even have one..erghhh...GOD HELP ME. THANK U. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 (its well gonna sound like im turning on the cheese here lol) i didnt realise i 'loved' my certain someone until it was too late. still dives me crazy six months on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Feli Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 Dude, it's perfectly possible. I first fell in love in 3rd grade. Yes, believe it, I was so in love with this kid from my class until 7th grade. And to be honest in that period of time I even got to cry for him. I know when I like someone, and when I love someone. So pretty much I had actually fallen in love with him. And they need to understand, you just don't "choose" when you fall in love. It just happens, any age really, when the feeling turns out to be pretty strong, and you sense it. So yeah, whoever doesn't really believe you needs to see that if he/she hasn't fallen in love at young age it doesn't mean not a single person in this world hasn't either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xmurderxlovex Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 Well. I actually odn't believe in love first of all. It's not something I believe in. I've never seen my parents say I love you before, I guess that's what pulled me into the "I really don't think love exists" thinking. My aunt thought she loved someone, but right before her wedding he turned out to be mental. Anywho. I think love for most people should be over the age of 17. There was this one girl who thought her boyfriend broke up with her. She called me crying. It wasn't a surprise. It was her 3rd boyfriend she said she loved. But she said "this time it's real. I swear." I think love is being labeled into just making out and sex. I think if society was less into sex and hottness, we would have true love. Sex was meant for marriage. I'm not religious though. Some relationships thrive on sex, some don't. That's my opinion. And it was very stupid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 ^ i agree - ive got a friend was been in love with like four guys since this time last year. its just so... naive. i do believe in love, but i dont think its easy to find so many times, in such a short space of time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 Too much is made of 'falling in love' these days. The word doesn't hold the same meaning it did even 10 years ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xmurderxlovex Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 ^ Exactly. I don't think I'll be finding love (whatever it is) till I'm in high school or college, thank you very much. Nowhere near where I am now. I swear my life to it. xD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 ^ i never thought i would either, not while i was in school anyway. i guess the fact that i didnt want to be in love was what screwed up what i already had. as much as im still kicking myself for being so useless lol, i guess i just wasnt ready - and dont think i will be anytime soon. just a boyfriend would be nice for now, plzz. nothing to write home about, y'know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xmurderxlovex Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 ^ I feel you, woman. My best friends are gorgeous. And I'm always the third wheel. It's annoying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 ^ ah. in fairness thats not really the case with my circle of friends - we all just tend to keep our eye on one person lol. theres like NO-ONE round her for me though (apart from the guy im on about in my previous posts aha, but im trying not to wait around for something to happen. im worried im just gonna end hurting myself - or him). i need to start looking elsewhere, innit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 love = overrated. i think but that might be just because i hvnt found "love" whatever. i hate this topic. such bad luck in it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xmurderxlovex Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 hsusysu True. My best friend and I have similar taste in guys, and having much prettier friends liking them, they obviously know how to flirt. I'm bitter, yes I know. But it's pretty unfair that some people can find their "love" so easily and have 80 boyfriends while a person who wants someone to like them for who they are can't find anyone. Complicated jealousy. Haha. WE'RE STILL YOUNG. we'll find someone. someday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 yes ugh i get told how pretty/hott i am all the time then like the ones that i like dont like me perfect example going on right now with me: i liked this boy.... my friend comes along.... i like a different boy... she comes along again and now shes stuck between both of them liek wtf ughh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notoriousfat67 Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 Well.I actually odn't believe in love first of all. It's not something I believe in. I've never seen my parents say I love you before, I guess that's what pulled me into the "I really don't think love exists" thinking. My aunt thought she loved someone, but right before her wedding he turned out to be mental. Anywho. I think love for most people should be over the age of 17. There was this one girl who thought her boyfriend broke up with her. She called me crying. It wasn't a surprise. It was her 3rd boyfriend she said she loved. But she said "this time it's real. I swear." I think love is being labeled into just making out and sex. I think if society was less into sex and hottness, we would have true love. Sex was meant for marriage. I'm not religious though. Some relationships thrive on sex, some don't. That's my opinion. And it was very stupid. but whats marriage anyway? really all it is is a legal binding between two people. it doesnt mean your more in love or anything. The only thing it changes is that you have to go through a longer process if you wanna break up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travel_hymn Posted July 27, 2008 Report Share Posted July 27, 2008 love = overrated.i think but that might be just because i hvnt found "love" whatever. i hate this topic. such bad luck in it. Mhmm me too...sniff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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