MSkeleton 45,265 Report post Posted July 23, 2010 Have fun! what are you girls gonna do? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted July 23, 2010 Thanks! We will! I'm not too sure. We're just gonna meet up at the mall and shop for a little bit, go to dinner, probably the movies. Pretty cliche. lol should be fun though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sandra 4,394 Report post Posted July 23, 2010 oh thats awesome! hope it goes well Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andalix 60,841 Report post Posted July 23, 2010 That's good. I wish you the best. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted July 24, 2010 Thanks guys! I'm excited! I'll letcha know how it goes! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andalix 60,841 Report post Posted July 24, 2010 Of course, you're excited! Haha and thank you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted July 28, 2010 OMG so tonight was my first date ever with a girl. Sabrina is sooo amazing! We hit it off so well and had so much fun! Like, everything just felt so natural! Our plan was to just shop in the mall, grab something to eat at the food court for a bit, then catch a movie. Well, we did the food first, got lost in conversation for almost 4 and a half hours, and didn't end up shopping or seeing a movie. It was so amazing! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MSkeleton 45,265 Report post Posted July 28, 2010 Great that it was so awesome! Already made plans for a second date? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EasyTarget 75,698 Report post Posted July 29, 2010 Ahh Katie, that's great! When are you seeing her again? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted July 29, 2010 We're trying to make plans for a second date, we just don't know when we can do it yet. I got a crazyyy school schedule, and she has work and such. She gets her work schedule at the end of the week so we can figure it out then (: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarMaramore 1,576 Report post Posted August 1, 2010 WOOHOO! Glad things went well for you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted August 4, 2010 Well. Second date went great! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MSkeleton 45,265 Report post Posted August 4, 2010 tell us! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted August 6, 2010 Haha okay (: We just did dinner and a movie. Not much to really describe but tons of fun! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MSkeleton 45,265 Report post Posted August 6, 2010 well it sounds good (: i hope you two will get to together <3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arrrrr x matey 29,857 Report post Posted August 13, 2010 Sabrina updateee!! She is, as of 1:30 this morning, officially my girlfriend! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sandra 4,394 Report post Posted August 13, 2010 aww thats awesome, congrats Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Starlight 17,618 Report post Posted August 16, 2010 Cooooongrats !!! Hope you have lots of fun with your new girlfriend ! I need to get a girlfriend too, I've been single my entire life. It's been nearly two years since I have feelings for a girl from my school. But since the first day that I got interested in her, I learned that she had a boyfriend, and she still is with him ... I'm in despair, because I'm in a situation where I cannot do anything; and they seem to love each other so much ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sandra 4,394 Report post Posted August 16, 2010 ^aww it sucks having crushes on people who are taken =/ I need to get over my stupid straight-girl crush.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
indabisofmisery 16,306 Report post Posted August 17, 2010 ^aww it sucks having crushes on people who are taken =/ I need to get over my stupid straight-girl crush.. as do i. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sandra 4,394 Report post Posted August 17, 2010 ^sucks right? I'm not like obsessing with her all the time, it's just the fact that i can't seem to get over her. Every time one of my friends mentions her name or just randomly says that they're texting her or something like that all my feelings just come rushing back. I hate it. It's so weird because ive only ever met her like 4 times,and we usually don't hang out just sometimes at parties,but we've talked alot online and she's soo nice. gaahhhhh Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
indabisofmisery 16,306 Report post Posted August 17, 2010 ^ that sucks. but you never know; maybe you can convert her? I have no idea how to get over crushes like that... if I knew the answer I'd tell you!! the girl i'm in love with is my best friend at college (though I'm not entirely sure she's 100% straight given her sparse romantic history). we hang out all of the time and I've seen her 3 times during summer break despite a 4 hour time difference between our houses. the problem is I don't want to make a move because I don't want to make our great relationship weird, but waiting for her to is excruciating since I don't know if anything's actually coming. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sandra 4,394 Report post Posted August 17, 2010 Nah she's pretty boycrazy all tho i know she's been with a girl when she was younger(she's 27) but she told me that was just something she wanted to try ,curiosity i guess. and even if she did like girls she wouldnt ever go for me,she's way too pretty for me. I kind of hate that she's such a nice person haha and apparently she likes talking to me coz everytime we chat on fb she's the one who keeps the conversation going. and this one time i was at a party with one of my friends whos also friends with her she got all excited when my friend mentioned that he was with me , she was like " OH you're hanging with Sandra,awesome! tell her i said hey and have fun tonight,wish i could be with you guys" and my friend had mentioned other friends of us to but it was only when she heard my name she got excited.. i hate that i read too much into things haha Ohh i see, that can't be easy. But have you gotten any signs that she might like you as more than a friend? or has she mentioned girls in any way? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Riot!Girlx 2,258 Report post Posted August 17, 2010 ^ i feel you guys's pain.. it sucks to be in love with people you can't have. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
indabisofmisery 16,306 Report post Posted August 17, 2010 Nah she's pretty boycrazy all tho i know she's been with a girl when she was younger(she's 27) but she told me that was just something she wanted to try ,curiosity i guess. and even if she did like girls she wouldnt ever go for me,she's way too pretty for me. I kind of hate that she's such a nice person haha and apparently she likes talking to me coz everytime we chat on fb she's the one who keeps the conversation going. and this one time i was at a party with one of my friends whos also friends with her she got all excited when my friend mentioned that he was with me , she was like " OH you're hanging with Sandra,awesome! tell her i said hey and have fun tonight,wish i could be with you guys" and my friend had mentioned other friends of us to but it was only when she heard my name she got excited.. i hate that i read too much into things haha Ohh i see, that can't be easy. But have you gotten any signs that she might like you as more than a friend? or has she mentioned girls in any way? oh, never say someone's "too pretty" for you. that doesn't exist (I would hope this girl isn't too superficial!). keep at it, though... maybe she'll see something in you. some people don't date based on gender, you know? see something you like and just go for it. at the very least, you can get a great friendship out of it. as for my friend and I, we don't talk much about our romantic lives (or lack thereof). she doesn't really mention girls, but I didn't either before I knew I was gay. when we're not at school, we communicate every day over facebook or texting or phone calls (something that neither of us do with any of our other friends, but this could mean anything). most of the signs I've gotten have been pretty inconclusive. the most glaring "signal" that I've noticed is the tension that I feel when we're together. like if we accidentally touch arms or something like that, I can feel her get nervous and pull away (we went to a drive in movie theater together and laid in the trunk of her car to see it; it was pretty cramped and it happened incessantly), but I don't know if she's trying not to lead me on or if she's nervous for the same reason I am, so I've spent the last 10 months or so really, really confused and conflicted. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
