eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 okay, so i have a girlfriend, but im still in love with my ex, who is in love with me still, but lives a while away, lets say, manchester, but my girlfriend wants me to change being lazy, even though im not usually lazy, just i was tired on friday night, and hardly had any sleep that night. but i dont know what to do. sadie? tell your girlfriend to cop on that makes no sence what does she mean stop being lazy, just cause you were tired? women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 A girl felt the need to tell me the demands of her bladder yesterday because she's "comfortable" with me. I will never get to shag her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 A girl felt the need to tell me the demands of her bladder yesterday because she's "comfortable" with me. I will never get to shag her. two words: friend. zone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 sadie? tell your girlfriend to cop on that makes no sence what does she mean stop being lazy, just cause you were tired? women. yeah, sadie.. im pretty much in the same position as Nyle tbh. but yeah, i was tired, and she knew that, and she was like today 'im just annoyed that you're so lazy. not being rude.' BUT I WAS TIRED. but sadie's coming down hopefully next month, and then shes coming down for my birthday weekend to spend the weekend with me and cos my birthday's on the iow festival weekend, we're camping together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 two words: friend. zone. agreed, never get into that zone man. NEVER. its a shitzone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 two words: friend. zone. Luckily I'm not interested in her anyway. But it's a wake up call I guess!! So. Here's a topic: what exactly defines who goes in the friend zone and who doesn't?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 yeah, sadie..im pretty much in the same position as Nyle tbh. but yeah, i was tired, and she knew that, and she was like today 'im just annoyed that you're so lazy. not being rude.' BUT I WAS TIRED. but sadie's coming down hopefully next month, and then shes coming down for my birthday weekend to spend the weekend with me and cos my birthday's on the iow festival weekend, we're camping together. oh hello memories from around this time last year haha thats cool about sadie coming down (: not so much about your gf being "stop that!" lol agreed, never get into that zone man.NEVER. its a shitzone. y'know once apon a time i would have agreed but now - the friend zone can turn out to be a good thing me and sinead we're friends first, like i was getting her set up with another girl and look what happened but then again - shes still my best friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 how much you flirt with them, whether they're in a good relationship, whether you're the type of guy/girl that they cant see to be more than a friend, like, the sweet, shy, caring guy/girl =] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 So. Here's a topic: what exactly defines who goes in the friend zone and who doesn't?? well theres ways of telling who is in the friend zone id say it is how comfortable you are with each other generally, (well especially at the beginning of something) people tend to be 'nervous'-ish around each other, and weary of what they say (especially girls) also if a girl talks to ya about her boy problems - no.no. or her girly problems, like friends - also no.no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 oh hello memories from around this time last year haha thats cool about sadie coming down (: not so much about your gf being "stop that!" lol lmao, shhh you. im a troubled kid and yeah but i dont wanna like, idk. i dont want to be with someone if they're trying to change me if you get what i mean, but i do also like aimee quite a fair bit. but she is fuck immature.. and she's 13, 14 next month.. i feel like a paedophile tbh. y'know once apon a time i would have agreed but now - the friend zone can turn out to be a good thing me and sinead we're friends first, like i was getting her set up with another girl and look what happened but then again - shes still my best friend that's very true okay, so one in a million chance. but saying that, it also happened with sadie, we were best friends, and then we were together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 lmao, shhh you.im a troubled kid and yeah but i dont wanna like, idk. i dont want to be with someone if they're trying to change me if you get what i mean, but i do also like aimee quite a fair bit. but she is fuck immature.. and she's 13, 14 next month.. i feel like a paedophile tbh. you didnt say anything after you quoted me the 2nd time haha idk - tbh lahni it sounds like you like aimee, yeah but your hearts just not in it =/ i think your gonna always love sadie more than anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 I guess I jut find it odd that any sort of emotional intimacy seems to be a "friend zone" sign. You woulda thought that with a relationshi would come more intimacy but apparently not... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 I guess I jut find it odd that any sort of emotional intimacy seems to be a "friend zone" sign. You woulda thought that with a relationshi would come more intimacy but apparently not... i think it depends on what stage of the relationship two people are in, or how long they have known eachother tbh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 ^agreed, and edited my other post ;D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 you didnt say anything after you quoted me the 2nd timehaha idk - tbh lahni it sounds like you like aimee, yeah but your hearts just not in it =/ i think your gonna always love sadie more than anyone i guess so :/ but i told aimee that we'd never break up again. cos i felt like she was using me last time.. for everything. money, tobacco and sex. but i cant say no to people.. thats my problem.. :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 got cha! lol yeah hmm idk what you should do dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 oh wait, you edited your post lol well idk tbh if amiee complains about you being lazy just say that! that shes using you, etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 i did, but shes like 'WTF! I'M NOT USING YOU!' and all that shit, and i feel bad, cos shes always in town when im there, so i cant ever really escape from her idk =[ this'll be the 4th time we've been going out, in less than a month. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 hmm, idk what you should do :S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 hmm =[ i hate this part of me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 its not your fault its aimees! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 but it feels like mine :/ i mean, she knows im still in love with sadie n all, and i told her that i want it to work with her but now its different, and its seeming that i want sadie more. but i want it to work. arghhhhhhhh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iOta Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 aww no Are u guys okay? Yeah. It happens. It's difficult for us that I'm working (2 weeks left!) in a different city... It's so easy when I'm at school to take a bus and go to see him, it only takes 15 minutes. I'm not sure if he's coming home tonight (home tomorrow morning) or leaving tomorrow. I know that he has work on tuesday night. We're a couple that don't need each other 24/7. Yeah I miss him everyday but I don't need him around me all the time. Have to call him tomorrow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parame Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 I decided I'm very, very gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted March 22, 2009 Report Share Posted March 22, 2009 so am i my friend ;] so am i! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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