Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 i tried that it backfired now i dont talk to her at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 yea i guess its possible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travel_hymn Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 (Mrs Farro here) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 I managed to get a girl to stop viewing me as a friend once. Key word: once. Was damn hard. Taught me to be more forward to begin with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 nice guys finish last. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 thats the way to d it ross be ore foward. no not really alex. its easy if you JUST TELL THE GIRL! cuz then less of a chance of her knowing or figuring out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 nio cause sometimes you become the friend then you tell them, but then its like "but it would be weird cause i love you so much, as a friend" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jorgi Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 It is actually so hard to get out of the friend zone. Just don't get in it in the first place. The friend zone is actually just an excuse meaning they don't want to go out with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Well this isn't a personal issue of mine, I'm just trying to speak for guys everywhere lol.So once put in this "friend zone", is it possible for one to distance themselves/change in some way to crawl out of it and get back "in the game"? i guess it depends on how good a friend you become. by best friend of the past 18 months only got to know me because he had a thing for me. he only told me that about a year ago, and thought things would never be the same. it really hurt to know someone id grown so close to as a friend was only intially interested in one thing. but, if it wasnt for that, i wouldnt have gained such a great friend - hes someone whos really been there for me the past few months when i needed a shoulder to cry on. and i know he doesnt see me in that way anymore (hes had like four girlfriends since pft), but occassionally he'll... hint. he'll say things he maybe shouldnt. i know nothing'll ever happen, so i guess we're just always gonna have that bit of awkwardness. nuff of my life story. basically, dont let yourself get in too deep in a friendship. just get to know them enough to be able to take it a step further. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 It is actually so hard to get out of the friend zone. Just don't get in it in the first place.The friend zone is actually just an excuse meaning they don't want to go out with you. BANG! see i was the bad guy for claiming that witha a girl once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 well then just tell the girl before you get too much involved in the friend zone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Or, when you are in the friend zone, treat them to a day half way across the country so see their favourite band. Just you and her. Worked a treat for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 i took mine to see paramore. paid for everything all day etc, still stayed in the friend zone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 see, things like that can be difficult. like if i guy i was friendly with did that for me, id feel kinda guilty to let him go through with it if i didnt actually like him in that way. id be flattered with the offer, but id feel like i was using him a bit! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted June 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 lol. Makes me laugh when she tells me "I wanna be able to be more natural with him, like I am with you" DUH, isn't the solution right in front of you??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jorgi Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Soemtimes guys (and girls) just have to accept that no matter how hard they try, how perfect things might seem, some people just won't want to go out with you. The sooner people realise this, nurse their bruised ego for a while and and move on, the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 yeh, you bitches Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted June 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Oh I realised that a long time ago. Of course it'll never happen, but perhaps analysing the reasons why will prevent it happening in the future. You know, self-improvement and all that bullshit that just reminds you of what a failure in the first place. As sooner as you realise that some things don't go your way, and it's nobodys fault, the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BABsxo. Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 Soemtimes guys (and girls) just have to accept that no matter how hard they try, how perfect things might seem, some people just won't want to go out with you. The sooner people realise this, nurse their bruised ego for a while and and move on, the better. totally. ive seen myself bluntly tell friends ITS NEVER GONNA HAPPEN after months of heartache. its a harsh reality, but they've all gotten over it in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 i took mine to see paramore. paid for everything all day etc, still stayed in the friend zone. Whereas I didn't pay for anything and still managed to get out. Weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 i reckon ive spent at least £500 on her over the last year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted June 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 meh. I made her call me. lol. So girls, what exactly is the ideal qualities you're looking for in a guy??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hiroki Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 All girls love a bastard so try being mean? Either that or just don't try so hard as your bound to meet someone else in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 ^ I was wondering when someone would bring that approach up. It's a little hit and miss being a bastard though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted June 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 And once again, it doesn't seem to make sense. Why do girls find it appealing?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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