13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 lol, i just think the point to being alive, is to live life. so i dont want to bother with anything that will keep me from doing just that. you either accept me for who i am or not at all. nothing n e one says or does will change that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 ^i like that philosophy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 ; ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clowdiaa Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 sometimes it takes longer to sink in i guess. i dunno. my best friend just came out six months ago that he's gay.....i pretty much knew already cuz to me it was obvious, but before he came out, he was really popular, and now its just weird you kno. like people feel like theyre being offensive if they say the words straight or gay around him which i find histerical. but yea as i was saying, its only been a week, you should give it sometime, it doesnt happen overnite for some people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 my best friend is struggling with his sexuality. its tough cause everyone always asks me if he's gay or not. i dont want to disrespect him so i force myself to say no. i know he'll be better off comming out, but i know he's really nervous about it. so he needs time, and thats perfectly fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clowdiaa Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 my best friend is struggling with his sexuality. its tough cause everyone always asks me if he's gay or not. i dont want to disrespect him so i force myself to say no. i know he'll be better off comming out, but i know he's really nervous about it. so he needs time, and thats perfectly fine. yea, i had that some situation all the time before he came out. everyone would ask me, and i would say "how about you ask him, its not my business to ask, but if you want to, go right ahead." and one day some asked, and he said yes, and by the next day everyone knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 thats generally the way it happened for me too. i just said yes, nd then everyone knew. but he's still in his denying it phase, but im tryin to help him as much as i can. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 Tralala...mariah is back...sooo ...I see we're still talking about that thing that we were 4 hours ago...haha... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 hahaha, indeed we are. damn i really need to log off, i gotta work on some admission essays. its called procrastination... i have perfected it! mwhahaha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 ditto..al day I was supposed to work on World Studies research, and Ive been surfing around on PF and AB and myspace and LJ...haha and Gmail...oh how I love Gmail... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 oh the acronyms. pretty much doing the same. aka, everything im not suppose to be doing hah. comming up next... Oh damn i need a new myspace picture. *runs and gets camera* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 hahahaha....OH LOOK A STRAY DOG...I MUST BATHE IT...hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 haha, in that sense, i spend my time chasing squirrels. the're friendly little buggers here, who eat from your hands. =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parawhore914 Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 lol. I leave for like...three days and a bunch of stuff has happend. I feel like the new kid entering middle school and not knowing anyone. What's been going on with everyone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 helping people feel comfortable with themselves. encouraging to come out etc. some good stuff, well, that was just today n e way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 yeah....its like groupd therapy today...haha...and now, somehow, I decided that Im coming out tomorrow...twill get back to you when Im at school about how my moms face is gunna sink and my dad's gunna freak out...haha cant wait *sniffels* :S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 aww best of luck to you mariah =] i hope everything goes well, and you can tell me all about it later :)x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavina15 Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 good luck *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 IF FREAKIN SUCKED>....ARG! haha...well my mum just sat there asking if I was sure..and my dad was just like....AKJSfdhasdjfjklasjdfljasdhfjahsdfhhjasdfjhasdfhjajesrbnaslkjcvh smaner;lkjqhawsdflknasdf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and as I said he smashed stuff....but I feel better now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 weight off your shoulders? I felt like that when i told my mum. But her and my two cousins are the only ones that know in my family.. well, im glad you came out babes =] As for your dad.. He sounds like mine, lol Homophobe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarMaramore Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 yeah...more like PRICK! haha I fucking hate him.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 haha i feel the same way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 ah, i agree with kayla, i'm off for a couple hours and i'm completely lost. haha. congrats mariah!! and dont worry about your dad, he can get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indabisofmisery Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 that sounds like the reaction my dad would have if i weren't straight. i think dads in general are homophobes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
13th_of_friday Posted December 3, 2007 Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 !! congratz. sorry bout your padre. he deserves a good smack in the face. oh im so proud. *hug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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