the1 Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Right, with all the fun threads here it's about time for some serious conversation. Beacause we all here seem to be... emotional people for lack of a better word, I figure there should be some interesting views on the subject. I am a virgin. I've made out with girls just for the hell of it, but here is something that worries me no end: Would I rather have sex with a randomer who I will never see again/rarely just for the hell of it to gain experience, who should I wait for someone who I care about so that it doesn't matter how bad the first time is?? With so many people having sex earlier, I do feel uncomfortable bein a virgin when everyone else says its so great having sex. I don't think there is a harm in one night stands, provided you can still feel connected in a real relationship. Your views and thoughts?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xbornforthisx Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Don't feel uncomfortable cause your a virgin it's best not to be a manwhore. So wait for the right time and person and dont feel uncomfortable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 ^ i dont sleep with any girl, im only sleeping with faye at the moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xbornforthisx Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 But you've slept with others mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xbornforthisx Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Forget i said anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJ Riot Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 I have had a few one night stands. The best sex is deffo when you are in a relationship IMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defiance Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 ive slept with plenty of others, but that is my age, and my partying nature, one night stands are good, but relationship / having sex with someone a few times is better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 james (the 1) what age are you?? not that it matter just curious but no you shouldnt feel pressured. and i think its better if you know some1 even if your not in a relationship i wouldnt with any randomer only god knows where they've been but im 17, so im like weiry of all those things who knows in the future Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jorgi Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 With so many people having sex earlier, I do feel uncomfortable bein a virgin when everyone else says its so great having sex. Haha, it's totally not as great as everyone says it is. It's completely up to you what you feel comfortable doing, just don't do anything you regret. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJ Riot Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 i am 20 aoife i have done it a couple of times with random strangers, only when pissed though they are quite a few slags round here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 i am 20 aoifei have done it a couple of times with random strangers, only when pissed though they are quite a few slags round here i ment the other james... but lol slags ewe hahaha jk jk but yeah as i said like idk what ill think about it in a few years even next year, when i go to college but now, i wouldnt do it mainly cause the dudes from here are horrible lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venus&Bacchus Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Have sex with lots of people. Whilst drunk of course. Otherwise get yourself a girl and wait til shes ready. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Have sex with lots of people.Whilst drunk of course. Otherwise get yourself a girl and wait til shes ready. the good old irish way lmao jk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venus&Bacchus Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Exactly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lahninja Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 as jorgi said, its really not as good as people say. so much better with someone that you love though, not just someone thats a complete stranger. ...you dont know where they've been haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the1 Posted April 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 james (the 1) what age are you?? Almost 17 It would be easy to shag a randomer for sure, I just don't know if I would have any self-respect afterwards. Unless they were really hot. Then I would feel awesome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venus&Bacchus Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 hahahaha so true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 ...you dont know where they've been haha my point exactly lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Almost 17It would be easy to shag a randomer for sure, I just don't know if I would have any self-respect afterwards. Unless they were really hot. Then I would feel awesome well if ther really hot...... why not haha jk its up to you everyones different, with different views and oppinions but you shouldnt really feel pressured! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParamoreRedSoxGurl Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 i really don't think it's that big of a deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xletthisgox Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 well... I'm a virgin, and I plan on stayin that way until I get married. not because I'm a christian and because thats what the religion says to do. But because I want to be able to have sex with my wife without her having to be self conscious about herself. I dont want her to have to worry about me comparing her to some girl I slept with when i was 19 or whenever I want my body to hers, and hers only and it would be amazing if she had waited for her me too. i have "hooked up" but not to have sex. but jsut to like kiss and what not. thats just my views on it. but dont feel uncomfortable about being a virgin. it is hard though when as every year goes on the age gets lower and lower when kids lose their virginity. and it makes it REALLY hard when all you see and hear is people talking about how amazing sex is. sure it makes you wanna do it, but i know that when i have sex with my wife and i have waited for her, and she has waited for me, it was be a mind blowing experience. because theres studies that actually show that if you slept around with 4 or 5 people, then get married and have sex, your mind connects having sex with those 4 or 5 other people, and it brings back memories of them WHILE your having sex and i wanna be able to focus on my wife while im having sex, not some girl i remember from my senior year. =] so im waiting for my wife 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venus&Bacchus Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 loser lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xletthisgox Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 ^^ and people like you are the ones who get STDs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eefie Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 well... I'm a virgin, and I plan on stayin that way until I get married. not because I'm a christian and because thats what the religion says to do. But because I want to be able to have sex with my wife without her having to be self conscious about herself. I dont want her to have to worry about me comparing her to some girl I slept with when i was 19 or whenever I want my body to hers, and hers only and it would be amazing if she had waited for her me too. i have "hooked up" but not to have sex. but jsut to like kiss and what not. thats just my views on it. but dont feel uncomfortable about being a virgin. it is hard though when as every year goes on the age gets lower and lower when kids lose their virginity. and it makes it REALLY hard when all you see and hear is people talking about how amazing sex is. sure it makes you wanna do it, but i know that when i have sex with my wife and i have waited for her, and she has waited for me, it was be a mind blowing experience. because theres studies that actually show that if you slept around with 4 or 5 people, then get married and have sex, your mind connects having sex with those 4 or 5 other people, and it brings back memories of them WHILE your having sex and i wanna be able to focus on my wife while im having sex, not some girl i remember from my senior year. =] so im waiting for my wife well ill be dammed never thought youd be that kinda dude major rep (; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venus&Bacchus Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 I was joking man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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