EasyTarget Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 True! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travel_hymn Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 lmfao i know:nono:its so ridiculous grudges are ridiculous internet or not tho I know someone who holds a grudge. It's been 4 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasyTarget Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 Four years?! Fucking hell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 i have a secret....i'm a horrible grudge holder in person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasyTarget Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 i have a secret....i'm a horrible grudge holder in person I am in private sometimes, but I'm weak and publicly forgive people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travel_hymn Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 Four years?! Fucking hell. yup, I tried reconciliating with him on MSN 2 years later and he never really liked talking. So I gave up for a while. Then when I added him on Facebook (this was like 2 months ago) he told me on MSN he wasn't comfortable with adding me (even though he had 2 other internet friends who he doesn't even speak to on his list.) And then he goes and blocks me on MSN. I don't get it. He has a tough life and his Dad is severely ill. How can someone be so cold to others like that? He should be nice and open and friendly to people and make the most out of life. He didn't like me cause I was in a long distance relationship with his (at the time) best friend. They talk fine now, but he still has this terrible grudge against me as you can see.. Hell, internet people have done shit to me and I forgave them so easily. Why hold grudges? WHY? I don't get it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 I am in private sometimes, but I'm weak and publicly forgive people. i'd like to be, but i'm not. i'm the forgive-and-not-forget kinda person who really accentuates the "not-forget" part lol i've hated this girl briana since she stabbed me in the back pretty back freshman year. it doesn't even matter anymore b/c i've already come out to everyone. but i still hate her for it for some reason. well she's done tons of other shit too but thats the main reason hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasyTarget Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 yup, I tried reconciliating with him on MSN 2 years later and he never really liked talking. So I gave up for a while. Then when I added him on Facebook (this was like 2 months ago) he told me on MSN he wasn't comfortable with adding me (even though he had 2 other internet friends who he doesn't even speak to on his list.) And then he goes and blocks me on MSN. I don't get it. He has a tough life and his Dad is severely ill. How can someone be so cold to others like that? He should be nice and open and friendly to people and make the most out of life. He didn't like me cause I was in a long distance relationship with his (at the time) best friend. They talk fine now, but he still has this terrible grudge against me as you can see.. Hell, internet people have done shit to me and I forgave them so easily. Why hold grudges? WHY? I don't get it. Wow, that sucks. Some people are dumb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasyTarget Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 i'd like to be, but i'm not.i'm the forgive-and-not-forget kinda person who really accentuates the "not-forget" part lol i've hated this girl briana since she stabbed me in the back pretty back freshman year. it doesn't even matter anymore b/c i've already come out to everyone. but i still hate her for it for some reason. well she's done tons of other shit too but thats the main reason hahaha Pfft, I think it's okay to be bitter, depending on the situation though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blaze Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 i can't hold a grudge to save mylife! i dislike people but never hold a grudge for like longer then an hour or so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
watchthesky Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 i'd like to be, but i'm not.i'm the forgive-and-not-forget kinda person who really accentuates the "not-forget" part lol i've hated this girl briana since she stabbed me in the back pretty back freshman year. it doesn't even matter anymore b/c i've already come out to everyone. but i still hate her for it for some reason. well she's done tons of other shit too but thats the main reason hahaha i am too haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catie Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 ^ hahahaha same with me grudges are dumb but there are SOME things that a person has done that you just cant forgive them for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrrrr x matey Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 Pfft, I think it's okay to be bitter, depending on the situation though. she somehow found out i was bi, but told everyone i was gay, that i had a HUGE crush on one of my friends, that i dream about her at night, that i check out every girl in the locker room, that i masturbated to girls' pictures in the yearbook, and that i wanted to kill my one friend's boyfriend out of jealousy. NONE of it was true. i didn't find out why people were weird to me until about 2 months later when my best friend told me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasyTarget Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 she somehow found out i was bi, but told everyone i was gay, that i had a HUGE crush on one of my friends, that i dream about her at night, that i check out every girl in the locker room, that i masturbated to girls' pictures in the yearbook, and that i wanted to kill my one friend's boyfriend out of jealousy. NONE of it was true. i didn't find out why people were weird to me until about 2 months later when my best friend told me. :uhh:That sick fucker. I'm not surprised you held a grudge. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XMusicDudetteX Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 I can't hold a grudge to save my life (even though I have the genetic heritage makeup that says I should be able to hold a grudge until my dying day if I can't get revenge). From the time I was six until I was thirteen someone lied to me, stole from me, tried to kill me a couple times, tried to turn me against my family by telling me awful lies, and I forgave them every time. I still forgive and hope the best for the person. I've always tried to help this person out with everything I could...I suck at holding grudges!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwik-silva Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 i can't hold a grudge to save mylife! i dislike people but never hold a grudge for like longer then an hour or so We're guys, we're built not to hold grudges Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 We're guys, we're built not to hold grudges I'd disagree. I know plenty of guys who hold grudges. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwik-silva Posted August 23, 2009 Report Share Posted August 23, 2009 I'd disagree. I know plenty of guys who hold grudges. The female race holds them a lot longer and for a lot less Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decoy! Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 The female race holds them a lot longer and for a lot less what do you mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwik-silva Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 what do you mean? I meant what I said? (A) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decoy! Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 I meant what I said? (A) haha i didnt understand what you meant by 'for a lot less' but got it literally about 2 secs ago haha clearly youve had a bad experience with women =p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwik-silva Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 haha i didnt understand what you meant by 'for a lot less' but got it literally about 2 secs ago haha clearly youve had a bad experience with women =p haha, fair enough, it's like... If you said something.. 'offensive' to a guy, and say the same thing to a girl, the girl normally takes it a lot worse.. Or from my experience Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegadeRoss Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 Guys can get offended too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwik-silva Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 Not saying they don't! It's just more likely for the girl to get offended... I feel stereotypical Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decoy! Posted August 27, 2009 Report Share Posted August 27, 2009 haha, fair enough, it's like... If you said something.. 'offensive' to a guy, and say the same thing to a girl, the girl normally takes it a lot worse.. Or from my experience this is true actually, fair point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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